Divine Timing with Danielle LaPorte
Divine Timing, Worthiness and Desired Feelings
This is the second video of our three-part series sharing the wisdom of Danielle LaPorte. Our discussion on manifesting a new loving partnership led me to question what Danielle thought about divine timing. This is a short video (and transcribed text below) with her response:
We don’t even have to have a conversation about worthiness. You’re worthy! Let’s move on, right?
Robin:
“What about your Soul’s plan? We may desire something, but there is another person involved that you want to bring in. What about their life? You have no control over where they are in their life? Who knows? There are two people, two souls involved.”
Danielle:
“This is the other layer of complexity. I know that that soulmate would change your life, of course. Baby, I know! Other people’s lives are involved. Your manifesting cannot, will not control or usurp other people’s free will. We live in a state of free will. There’s lots of things we have signed up to do in any given lifetime, but you have the power to choose your thoughts, you have the power to choose your feelings. You have the power to act in specific ways. You don’t have the power to control anybody else’s choices! So, we might have our eye on a particular person and there’s 900 other things in play.
I am a big fan of getting very clear. Once you do the work, remove all of the obstacles to love – everything that’s obscuring your perspective of truth. We don’t even have to have a conversation about worthiness. You’re worthy! Let’s move on, right? Then, you move on to the specifics of…I want to feel vitalized, I want team, I want creativity, I want deep sex, I want a companion, I want simple companionship. You get to define all of that for yourself and then (here’s the beautiful complexity) you get to co-create that and find that with somebody else’s clarity. Then we have a clash of clarities and that’s called building relationship! That’s the beautiful opportunity - you make a life together.”
You have the power to act in specific ways. You don’t have the power to control anybody else’s choices! So, we might have our eye on a particular person and there’s 900 other things in play.
I LOVED THESE INSIGHTS! THESE ARE THE THREE KEY MESSAGES I TOOK AWAY FROM OUR DISCUSSION:
We may want someone or something with our whole hearts. We may have done all of the “inside” work to remove limiting thoughts and beliefs possibly blocking this person or experience from coming into our lives. We may also be engaged in daily, intentional conversation and action focused on creating this relationship or experience. What we have no control over is the other person/people involved and his/her life circumstances and the timing that goes along with it all. Danielle reminds us to embrace the mysteries in life and maybe not take things too seriously when we have limited control over many things in our lives.
You are worthy - plain and simple. You are worthy of a loving, passion-filled, nurturing, joy-filled partnership (if that is what you desire!). There is nothing you need to do or change about yourself in order to have a loving partnership in your life. You are and have always been worthy.
It’s important to get clear on the feelings you want to have in your relationship. Rather than focusing on the exterior package, talents, education, skills you desire in a partner - really consider how you want to feel in your loving partnership. Danielle refers to these as your Core Desired Feelings. She will be helping you through the process of discovering your core desired feelings during the Summit in April. These can be translated into all areas of your life and help guide all decisions you make based on if your choices bring you the feelings you desire or not. Simple, yet powerful stuff.