Manifestation with Danielle LaPorte
Hello Dear Friends,
I had the greatest pleasure of sitting down over tea with Danielle LaPorte on November 28, 2019 to talk about all things LOVE. Over the next few months, we will share parts of this heart-full conversation and the wisdom Danielle imparts. I so appreciate her wide perspective on relationships and life, in general. She, herself, proclaims she is “Real Love Ready!”
For those of you seeking your next big love or those wanting to deepen the relationship you’re in, I hope Danielle’s words will provide insight, hope and resolve. I pray they also serve as a reminder that we can turn to each other for comfort and support in our lives.
Here is our chat about manifesting a loving partnership. I wanted to hear Danielle’s take on this sometimes oversimplified concept. Most of us understand that we are creating our reality through our thoughts and actions. How does this apply to our relationships?
Robin: Danielle, I was listening to your podcast about manifestation. You talked about how we can want to create something in our lives and we do not have to feel worthy in order to create it, but we do have to have a plan, and take steps towards it - much like the carpenter who shows up every day with his nails and hammer and literally hammers away at the job to be done. How do you see this analogy of the carpenter compared to someone who wants to create a loving partnership in their lives?
Danielle: Manifesting in terms of relationships is complicated terrain, because relationships have so much to do with our woundedness and our wellness. In my belief system, I believe relationships also have to do so much with karma and soul choices and what we really came in to learn.
I also believe that so much is possible. Not anything is possible; we have restraints and restrictions and we have to leave lots of room for mystery, but we really are creating a huge amount of our reality.
Manifesting love. There is a science of manifesting. You have your vision. That vision is like a vignette; what symbolizes that moment of realization and success for you. Maybe it’s just that one scene of the wedding. Or, you just see your hands holding. Whatever that vision is – it is what you would put on your internal vision board, so to speak. That’s a seed that you have to water. You don’t just put that up on a poster board and glance at it while you’re checking your email! You have to pay attention to that. By paying attention, I mean that you are feeling that dream, that image realized. It’s manifested. And part of that feeling is to embody that feeling; you are giving thanks for it. This gets into an esoteric conversation. All possibilities exist in multi-dimensions, so it actually is the truth for you to say, “Thank you Spirit, thank you Universe, thank you Life (whatever your belief system is) for this incredible relationship.” Even though it’s not here in this current reality, it’s in the field of possibility. So, you being grateful for it is you witnessing that and bringing it a little bit closer.
All possibilities exist in multi-dimensions, so it actually is the truth for you to say, “Thank you Spirit, thank you Universe, thank you Life (whatever your belief system is) for this incredible relationship.” Even though it’s not here in this current reality, it’s in the field of possibility. So, you being grateful for it is you witnessing that and bringing it a little bit closer.
The practicality of it is you need to get stuff out of your system, out of your life, out of your psyche that are blocks to the love that you desire. This is the step that a lot of us skip. We think we can just manifest and wish and vision board our way into magnificent love. No, you sweat and you bleed and you work your way into being a vessel to accommodate and honour this great love that you want to have. You have to work on the wounds and everything in your psyche that says you’re not worthy. I also believe you do not have to feel worthy in order to bring lots of stuff in, but in terms of a love match – you want resonance. We are not talking about manifesting a Tesla into your life! We are talking about resonance and reflection and being met. For that to happen you need to really look at how you’re wired and what are the beliefs you have around your deserving? As my friend, Terri Cole, will say, “What is your blueprint for love?” All of those messages that you’ve been given by your family of origin and society about who you are…Are you really that? You might not be that. You get to say who you are. All of the introspection and the prayer and just going for a walk every day in the woods…just BE with yourself. Those are all ways of removing illusions. (Reminding yourself) “I am worth it. I’m valuable. I’m so loving. I’m so generous.” From there, from those qualities of fullness – you bring in a full love.
I am worth it. I’m valuable. I’m so loving. I’m so generous. From there, from those qualities of fullness – you bring in a full love.