Ask the Experts | Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu | IG Live Q&A
Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the authors of How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love and the co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more. They’re also the hosts and executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. Julie brings her background in human-centered design and research, while Yue shares her experience as a dating coach. Together you can find them at dateablepodcast.com and @dateablepodcast.
Questions answered:
What’s the difference between chemistry and compatibility, and how much weight should I give to each?
What’s the best way to communicate that I’m dating with long-term intentions? Is bringing up my relationship goals early on okay, or should I wait?
Is there such a thing as “too picky,” or am I just honouring my standards?
I struggle with vulnerability. How can I let someone in without feeling exposed too quickly?
What green flags should I look for in the early stages of dating?
How do I stop comparing new people I date to someone from my past?
What questions can help me really get to know someone’s character, not just their interests?